To those who feel that their lives have been wasted or that their lives are a waste I have something to say

1.The Creator and Maintainer of what was is or will be deemed you worthy of creation so no matter how much you choose to wallow or beat yourself up you or your life could never be a waste

2.The Creator and Maintainer of what was is or whatever will be created you so unique that noone that was ,is or ever will be could ever be you ,live your life or fulfill the unique function that G-D has given you .You are in effect irreplaceable and therefore you or your life could never be a waste

3.Every given moment ,every given second is an equilibrium ,universal equilibrium,a multi-versal equilibrium etc.So whenever you do or say something however slight you literally change the world,change existence on levels you cannot begin to fathom.That is how powerfully important you are and therefore you or your life can never be a waste

4.Without realizing it you meet,see,encounter etc thousands of people during your life time and in most cases you have no idea of the positive impact you have had on their lives. A small example ,so many people choose to give up,contemplate putting an end to things ( G-D forbid) etc and on the day they choose to do so they walk past you one morning and you smile or nod in greeting.You may dismiss that as negligible and worthless but they in their fragile state may see it as a life changing event..a validation of existence , a reason not to give up" someone noticed me !!!!..so maybe others will too".There are endless possibilities of how you could have impacted many other lives ,have the humility to be open to this enjoy it ,feel elevated by it

5. Dont negate the G-D given power of a moment. A moment has the power to release you from the anchors in your past. A moment has the power to give you a new beginning. A moment can be a powerful elixir of hope that can lead to great positive changes in your life.A moment has the power to unshackle you from bad choices. A moment can be a powerful springboard that can reignite and rejuvenate your life ...and the possibilities go on and on. The miracle is that G-d gives you so many moments,so many opportunities, over and over again until you are able or choose to see them and the glorious gift that they are .These moments in your life bear witness that you and your life could never be a waste

6.It is okay to wish that life were different but the true waste it to let it pass by in sadness and frustration.Open your heart to the unique privilege of being royalty ,created by the KING OF KINGS.Take the time to learn about who you really are ,the magnificent ,majestic awesome eternal power of your G-D given potential no matter how mundane you feel your life to be....and all you will be able to say is WOW..This Wow factor unique to you,when you get to know it and wholeheartedly say it, it will finally dawn on you that no matter your life,situation ,challenges or station YOU AND YOUR LIFE COULD NEVER BE A WASTE
so much more to write ...chew on this for a while