Noone of us want bad things or challenges but if you are able in the midst of it to keep some clarity you might find some people who shock you but many times if you are aware and pay attention you will see mindblowing greatness shining through many people in their willingness to give care, support etc .you will start to see them and others in a different light with new found respect and life changing inspiration....and you just might land up feeling as a result that much closer to G-d ---- an awesome takeaway from any challenge