Keep your definitions fluid then you will not drown in them and will be able to swim past to new more rejuvenating shores and find a continually greater, more joyous and fulfilling life
For example you might have been told that the definition of success is making money and gaining standing and importance in the community
and even though this does not sit well with you ,you accept this,live by it, because that is what many have told you
When you keep your definitions fluid the change, the upgrade, the transformation to what for you is true success will be easier , more fulfilling , more meaningful and you will truly shine as you are closer to what inspires you to true success