There is a drop of water separate from the ocean which will only go so far,to its limits.Yet back in the ocean it is still that drop of water but with the infinite power of of the ocean , no limits only infinite possibilities because it is not just the drop it is the ocean.So it is with G-d surrendering to G-ds will does not weaken us it connects us to the infinite power of G-d and gives us the unbelievable strength and potential which has always been our destiny, giving us the unhindered non complacent freedom to be our true selves....a choice......are you a drop or are you the ocean? For when the drop of water is in the ocean it can never remain a drop