Most of us when we go to a doctor we trust if we G-D forbid have to undergo an operation we dont bring guards and a police escort into the operating Theater
There are more day to day examples of where most of us trust and it is not as foreign as many of us would like to think so here( in short) is a simple but deep formula to connect to G-D

Thank G-D:
If G-D is reality then every second of anything is a gift,pay attention to the miracles all around us in nature,the human body ,mind ,achievement etc

Trust G-D:
Do your maximum effort in everything , be aware, pay attention, check, research, question etc but Trust.When you trust you learn to let go of the nonsense grow from what makes sense and its okay not to know everything(admitting you do not know everything is true wisodm for then you continue to learn) and what you need to know will come with your persistent effort and you , your life, whatever happens is not random ,you matter your life matters

Transcend with G-D:
Now you are ready to realize that true control is giving control over to G-D and then suddenly your limitations shatter because you are not limited by for example" I am too embarrassed to speak up for myself" etc" G-D,who is infinity ,eternity the endless source of everything created me so I will and can do it" and then with the requisite effort you will find that, that which you expected to take a long time becomes more achievable in shorter periods of time etc