Desiring healthy conflict resolution over dissolution is not for anyone else but you.
For with healthy honest resolution you release your soul from the shackles body focused selfishness and negative ego which brings in its wake harmony ,blessing and the clarity to focus on what is truly important
5 general practices of people who want to resolve conflicts
1. A real Desire to resolve the conflict
If one does not have a real desire to resolve the conflict then the requisite effort will not be made and resolution will more than likely not occur
2.Never lose sight of the benefit of resolution over dissolution
When one never loses sight of the importance of resolution over dissolution ones willingness to resolve the conflict stays strong and resolution is expedited .Ones time is spent looking for bridges and thus not wasted in highlighting that which divides and fosters discord
3. A willingness to listen with a desire to hear
When one is willing to listen one acknowledges anothers opinion,feelings point of view increasing the possibility of resolution
4.Keep negative ego in check
Keeping negative ego in check avoids over sensitivities that light unnecessary fires that could worsen the conflict
5.Healthy Persistence
Resolving conflicts can be a bumpy road and resolution does not have much chance if people give up when obstacles are encountered however persistence has to remain healthy ,that is, if eventually bridges cannot be crossed at a particular time they should not be burnt and then resolution remains a realistic possibilty
For with healthy honest resolution you release your soul from the shackles body focused selfishness and negative ego which brings in its wake harmony ,blessing and the clarity to focus on what is truly important
5 general practices of people who want to resolve conflicts
1. A real Desire to resolve the conflict
If one does not have a real desire to resolve the conflict then the requisite effort will not be made and resolution will more than likely not occur
2.Never lose sight of the benefit of resolution over dissolution
When one never loses sight of the importance of resolution over dissolution ones willingness to resolve the conflict stays strong and resolution is expedited .Ones time is spent looking for bridges and thus not wasted in highlighting that which divides and fosters discord
3. A willingness to listen with a desire to hear
When one is willing to listen one acknowledges anothers opinion,feelings point of view increasing the possibility of resolution
4.Keep negative ego in check
Keeping negative ego in check avoids over sensitivities that light unnecessary fires that could worsen the conflict
5.Healthy Persistence
Resolving conflicts can be a bumpy road and resolution does not have much chance if people give up when obstacles are encountered however persistence has to remain healthy ,that is, if eventually bridges cannot be crossed at a particular time they should not be burnt and then resolution remains a realistic possibilty
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