Sometimes we have an issue getting past a loved one's , a friend's etc challenging behavior , words said etc... maybe you need to learn to H.U.G.

Humble- realize everyone has their story which G-D has allowed them to author through their choices at their pace.Trust that G-D is proof reading all the time and has the bigger picture

Unconditional-dont make ego based decisions,actions reactions etc.Let people be themselves, let go of the petty move on.
When you are unconditional, you are just being the best version of you that you can be to live your best life and in so doing you will be an inspiration and a source of light to others

Gratitude-Be grateful for the people in your life ,how would you feel without them( G-D forbid)?.
See the whole person, remember the good they have done and realize they have the right to think and be different to you.Most importantly remember that you have fallen too,remember why, the understanding,sensitivity,consideration,help etc that you needed, wanted or requested