Living a more positive joy filled fulfilling life

Here is a question to ask yourselves.I ask myself this question constantly.So before I reveal the question consider:

So many of us are full of righteous indignation about so many issues and as a result
We dont forgive
We dont learn to move on
We feel angry a lot
We hold grudges
We snap at people
We jump to conclusions
... We insult and badmouth
We always see the bad in some people
We get Jealous of people
We are full of criticism
We get ultra sensitive
We blame our moods ,state of minds etc on others , there words and behaviour etc etc etc etc etc

Well here is the question: Who lives the more ,joy filled,positive and fulfilling life?

The one who learns to forgive or the one who holds a grudge

The one who sees the best in people or the one who see the worst

The one who tries to understand or the one who take everything the wrong way

etc etc etc

I think the answer is clear however your choice will determine the quality of your life