When you think everyone owes you, you deserve it all ,then you are basically de-serving,reducing the giving, the being of service to others.The funny thing is when you think you deserve then the focus is only you but when you are self -less you have more space for others in your life and you gain more.So instead of seeing everything as deserved see it all as a huge blessing when you get it, a sign of G-Ds unconditional love , mercy and care,a gift. See where you can serve others , be of value ,contribute for giving is living and then what you thought you "deserved" will be as nothing compared to what you will truly get