Some people stare at a painting and see paint thrown on a canvas others see sublime awesomely expressive art
The Map is not the Territory .. Reality is agreement for the moment there is disagreement you have a proliferation of context, assumption ,inclination,,bias,interpretations,perspectives,meanings, impressions, attitudes etc going in all different directions and reality becomes arbitrary and subjective
To find true Reality one has to transcend that which is subject to change and connect to that which is not, that which always was is and will be , that which cannot be swayed ,surrender to it, connect and find the focus and direction to true individual and collective fulfillment ..You dont lose your uniqueness or individuality...you get to see and feel the beauty of difference , creativity etc
It is the Source , the base , the Reality that you connect to that determines what you find ,learn etc and who you become.....the drop is still the drop but in the ocean it is connected to the ocean and feels the power and potentail of the ocean----- That unchanging ,life giving ,empowering Reality is G-D