If G-D is the reality, the Divine space, in which you live then you have the freedom to live unconditionally for no man or woman will have dominion over you

You are free to live fully

You are free to love fully

You are free to express yourself fully

You are free to enjoy being your best self

You are free to soar beyond any limitation

No matter what or how others say or do things, for what you say or do is not dependent on them so it matters not how or what they say for you will be the best version of you that you can be ,continually taking it higher,with the requisite amount of aware ,self preservation etc.

Living unconditionally connects you to unlimited reality that is G-D and no one is going to trade unlimited potential and possibility in this world and the next for the petty distractions of negative ego and the temptation of fleeting gratification

You are too important....you impact the world in ways you cannot comprehend...noone can fill your shoes for they were made only for you

Live unconditionally without excuses ...every reality has its guidelines, rules etc and the ultimate reality that is G-D has a manual for us and that is the Torah.

Without rules no game can be played but you can play the game unconditionally to the best of your ability and grow from it no matter what any commentator has to say.